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Finally understand why you're wired the way you are! Weekly neuroscience-backed insights for introverts who are tired of adapting to a world that wasn't built for them.
Hey Reader, This week, when searching my files for something, I found a spreadsheet I'd made a few years ago where I'd collated my qualifications, accomplishments, feedback and a survey I'd done of people who know me when I was training as a coach.I updated it, and then asked AI to analyse it.I'm not sure what I was expecting but it was NOT what I got: I'm world-class at facilitating training I have the kind of proof most speakers never accumulate (but have done nothing with it) I've been...
Hey Reader, A message arrived this week that I keep coming back to. Someone - I'll call him Dave - wrote to tell me that for most of his 56 years he's been asking the same question: what is wrong with me? Reading my posts, he said, had brought him to a much clearer understanding of himself. For the first time, he could acknowledge that this is who he is. And that it's okay to be how he is. That acceptance is powerful. It's also just the beginning. Next Monday, the same meetings are still in...
Hey Reader, A few weeks ago I delivered a workshop I shouldn't have agreed to. The contract alone should have told me everything I needed to know. It was someone else's design, and involved demonstrating a role play with a professional actor - not my comfort zone - and cycling participants through breakout rooms in a way that felt relentless rather than purposeful. It was only 90 minutes long and on paper I was fine. Professional. Nobody would have known I was uncomfortable and not delivering...